New Year Weight Goals: How to Reset Your Mindset for Lasting Change
- Sharon Shinwell
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read

Every January, people tell me the same thing: “This year, I want to lose weight and keep it off.”
After more than 25 years as a clinical hypnotherapist, I’ve seen the same pattern again and again—people don’t fail because they’re weak or lazy. They struggle because they try to change their eating habits without first changing the way their mind reacts to stress, routine, and old patterns.
The New Year can feel exciting and hopeful, but it also brings pressure. Many suddenly feel they must eat perfectly, cut everything out, or stick to strict plans from day one. By February, motivation fades and frustration sets in.
But there is a gentler, more effective way forward—one that starts inside the mind.
Why So Many New Year Weight Loss Resolutions Don’t Last
Most weight loss resolutions fade because they rely on short bursts of willpower. And willpower alone simply can’t compete with:
long-standing habits
emotional eating
stress
autopilot snacking
overwhelm
restrictive routines that feel impossible to maintain
Real progress begins when you work with your mind instead of battling against it.
How Your Mind Shapes Your Eating Habits
Your unconscious mind is incredibly powerful. It influences cravings, portion sizes, emotional triggers, and the urge to reach for food when you’re tired or overwhelmed.
Clients often tell me:
“I know exactly what I should do… but I can’t seem to stick to it.”
This isn’t a failure—it’s simply a learned response playing out automatically.
Once the mind becomes calmer and less reactive, the way you eat naturally follows.
Mindset Shifts That Make Weight Loss More Achievable
Sustainable change comes from small, realistic steps such as
slowing down when eating
noticing hunger signals
recognising “trigger moments” such as evenings or weekends
speaking to yourself more kindly
making choices you can maintain, not dread
allowing resets instead of guilt
Tiny actions, repeated often, create real momentum.
How Hypnosis Supports Healthy, Natural Weight Change
Hypnosis creates a relaxed internal space where your mind is more open to new patterns. This helps you:
ease cravings
quiet emotional eating
feel more in control
reduce the urge to overeat
build confidence around food
maintain your goals beyond January
Two of my most popular programs—Weight Loss Self-Hypnosis and Virtual Gastric Band are designed to support you in slightly different ways. Here’s a closer look.
A Closer Look at the Weight Loss Sessions That Support Your New Year Goals
Over the years, these two programs have helped many people approach weight loss in a calmer, more sustainable way.
Weight Loss Self-Hypnosis MP3 + Complete Guide eBook
This bundle is ideal if you experience emotional eating, late-night snacking, portion issues, or the familiar “start again on Monday” cycle.
The 40-minute self-hypnosis session helps you:
soften cravings
ease emotional triggers
build confidence
feel calmer around food
make steadier everyday choices
It includes guided imagery (including “Wishing on a Star”), positive cues you can use in real-life situations, and supportive self-talk to help you pause and choose differently.
The 4,000-word eBook gives you practical support: nutrition basics, appetite psychology, sleep and stress influence, overcoming plateaus, quick daily practices, and habit-building tools. It’s designed for real life—nothing extreme or rigid.
Together, the audio and eBook help you create both the inner shift and the everyday structure needed for lasting success.
Virtual Gastric Band Hypnosis MP3 + Companion eBook
If you tend to eat larger portions, feel hungry quickly, or have been stuck in dieting cycles for years, the Virtual Gastric Band approach may suit you well.
The 66-minute hypnosis session guides you through:
deep relaxation
mindset strengthening
the “Virtual Gastric Band” experience
body-confidence visualisation
long-term motivation techniques
It helps your mind respond as though you feel satisfied with smaller meals, making portion control feel natural rather than forced. This also supports a calmer relationship with food.
The companion eBook explains the concept in simple terms, shows why diets often backfire, and gives exercises and mindset tools that work alongside the audio.
Many people notice they feel full sooner, make smoother choices during the day, and develop a more peaceful relationship with food.
Which Weight Loss Session Is Right for You?
Choose Weight Loss Self-Hypnosis if you want help with:
cravings
emotional eating
daily habits
appetite awareness
feeling more balanced
Choose Virtual Gastric Band if you want support with:
portion size
feeling full sooner
overeating patterns
confidence around food
building long-term consistency
Both approaches work beautifully—you simply choose the one that matches how you experience your eating habits.
If you have never tried Self-Hypnosis, there is a FREE short session on my ABOUT PAGE
A Kind, Steady Way to Begin the Year
If you’re ready for a New Year where weight loss feels calmer and more achievable, both of these programs are available for instant download on my website.
You don’t need extremes or pressure. You just need a mind that feels settled, supported, and ready for change.
Here’s to a lighter, steadier year ahead.
Sharon


